When school does not make sense, your child is left guessing.
They make hundreds of beautiful flashcards to cram in information they can't tell you anything about. They churn through assignments hoping to hit the word count and incorporate enough quotes, not realizing they are actually being asked to have an opinion and back it up. When they study, it never feels like enough. How can it? When you can't see what anything actually means, there is no finish line.
They don't know school can and should make sense.
Your child's habits are understandable. When material makes no sense, it does not get stored in the brain. The only way your child can hold onto it is memorization, which is never what was intended. The teacher or professor has the understanding of what it is for and why it matters, but that context almost never reaches your child. Without that understanding, your child clings to procedures, formulas, word counts, and hours and hours of memorization.
Your child doesn't need fixing. They need the conditions to change.
A person in a wheelchair does not experience immobility when ramps give them access. Your child's challenges don't have the same impact when the material shows up in a form their brain can actually work with.
When that happens, they don't have to fight to learn. They just learn. The struggle was never about capability. It was about what they were being asked to do without the right support.